Living life in limbo is inevitable from time to time, but today I had an epiphany:
When you’re working toward a goal, don’t try and fill your life with other things to provide comfort.
Keep moving. Focus on your mark. You’ll get there.
I chatted with a friend about this earlier today- we are both writers working on our own brands, yet we have both been guilty of letting distractions alter our mindset. Why on earth would we let other people, places, or things stand in our way? While she’s out in Los Angeles working toward her dreams, and I’m here in Boston working on mine. It was wonderful and perfect to connect with her about where I’m at right now, because she’s in the same spot, too!
Oh, I just love how life works out. Just as we started to feel a bit irritable and discontent about our “distractions,” we both passed the tests and recognized that we need to get back to work.
People and situations will come into your life when they’re supposed to, but don’t try and manipulate the situation. Whether you’re filling your time with a new TV series or going out on dates for no good reason, stop. I’m serious. Everything falls into place as it should, including those uncomfortable moments. Don’t dig yourself into a deeper hole and get off track.
Each moment teaches you a lesson- so remember your goal, stay on your path, and you’ll be just fine. ❤
Oh, how time flies… and how things change (yet stay the same).
It’s hard to believe I have officially been freelancing for a DECADE. Back in 2008, my friend Steve and I started a small marketing company where we bartered with local businesses in San Francisco.
Steve made a little “nook” in the bay window that looked out onto 24th and Harrison. It was there where we worked on our first website for Starboard Marketing, and where we used to eat, drink, and be merry. That year, we threw a Chinese-themed party for the Olympics Opening Ceremony, played Sarah Palin Bingo, and watched the Giants play terribly (but loved them anyway)- we had no idea what their fate would be in 2010.
Above his apartment in the Mission District we also brewed beer, lovingly referred to as “Harrison Brewing Company.” We named our first brew, a blonde ale, after his golden retriever, Mackerel. We also made a hefeweizen that year named “Obam’ale,” which we (probably illegally) brought to the polls with us on election night.
We thought we may be able to nab the new ice cream shop below his apartment, which we watched open as the retro stools were installed and the signs went up. He got their mail delivered to his address before they got their own, and were excited to run downstairs and try their “Secret Breakfast” ice cream after they opened. That ice cream shop is now the famed Humphry Slocombe.
From massage therapists and local restaurants to fashion designers and mobile shopping apps, my work has definitely changed over the years. However, my heart still feels the same- I will only work with brands, causes, and companies I am passionate about. Life is too short to not to do what you love.
7 cities and 10 years later, I’m still loving entrepreneurship, writing, and cultivating connections all over the world. I’m beyond grateful for having a wild soul and free spirit that made me fearless and ready to take chances over these past 10 years.
2008 may have been a great year, but 2018 will be even better.
Back in July 2016, as I was packing up my New York apartment and shipping boxes upon boxes back to Michigan, I had no idea what direction my life was going. Vodka in hand, soul empty, and nerves on fire, my heart was broken.
I had officially failed at my life in New York City. It was the only thing I ever wanted; to work in fashion. To live on the Upper West Side. To mingle with famous writers, actors, designers, and socialites. To have a drink at lunch without judgement.
Then, I got it- and I ruined it.
Sure, most of those things are silly; but the career part was what hurt the most. For some reason, however, at the time I didn’t realize I didn’t ruin anything.
I just took a break.
What I didn’t realize back in 2016 was that I didn’t need to purge all of my stuff to become “mindful.” I didn’t need to abandon my love for style just because I needed to step back and work on myself for a while. I didn’t need to drop my #OOTD pictures just to be a happy, confident person on the inside- for my fashion is no longer my mask.
It’s an expression.
What used to be a shield of protection is now a bridge to connect with others.
Style connects. Style speaks. Style inspires.
That said, I have been thinking lately about starting on a few new projects on my off-work hours, and perhaps I’ll even start painting in color- not just gold. 🙂
Life is too short not to do the things you love- and it feels wonderful to be alive again.