Over the past few years I’ve learned the benefits of vulnerability and the value of opening yourself up to other people. As a self proclaimed “counterdependent,” I often have a hard time sharing myself with others one-on-one, or showing who I am due to fear of making a connection:
But connection is powerful.
Taking back the narrative of your life and owning your truth is a gift that takes time, but reaps immeasurable results.
I opened myself up to many different people this past year- some in recovery, and some not. Thanks to my friends in sobriety, I learned to safely share my story with people who understand.
However, sometimes you open up to people who don’t- or won’t. That’s okay too.
I was recently in a situation where I was called “fragile” by someone I hardly knew- simply because I am sober in recovery and showed my vulnerable side. What?!
I’m not sure who he thought he was talking to, but I do know today to keep my standards high and my expectations low.
After years of settling for less or compromising my own morals, I’m no longer willing to let someone else dictate my value or worth.
Struggle brings strength, and although I haven’t always made the best choices in my life, I survived my difficulties and have been able to thrive because of them.
The butterfly represents transformation and new beginnings- if she hadn’t struggled to emerge from the cocoon, she wouldn’t have the strength to spread her wings and fly.
She may be delicate, but she certainly isn’t fragile- and neither are you.
German philosopher Johann Wolfgang von Goethe said, “Magic is believing in yourself. If you can do that, you can make anything happen.”
On this 12/12, I have been thinking about everyday magic and living in infinite possibilities.
Keeping my eye out for synchronicities and signs, I have made a conscious effort to stay connected, grateful, and in my own truth.
12/12 is a magical gateway to transformation, helping to guide you closer to your soul purpose and passions. This gateway assists in feeling confident, empowered, and loved; the old will begin to slip away and make room for a newness that will be better aligned with your heart.
You can find magic each and every day- you just need to be open to what life brings you. As we stop listening to what others on the outside say and begin to listen to what’s inside, a new peace is found and unexpected doors will open.
All you need is to believe in yourself- then others will, too.
One may say my head is often in the clouds and I have a relentless need for freedom, change, and adventure, but most wouldn’t consider me calm or cautious, like a Capricorn. That said, I turned to my “Sag ‘scope” of the day:
“A sense of dissatisfaction that has been dogging you for quite some time now will at last begin to fade. You will instinctively know that you have found your niche in life and can follow your calling to achieve your dreams. You will be able to understand what changes must be implemented to make your health as well as your work much better.”
This brings me to a common theme (or struggle): identity.
Although my haircut is the same as it was four years ago, I’ve spent a lot of these four years questioning who I am.
Have I been who I wanted to be? Or have I been listening too closely to what others have said?
I’ve lived a few different places, dated different people, worked different jobs; but none of things things have made up who I am. Wherever you go, there you are– no matter what is stripped from you, whatever title you have, or whoever is by your side. You always have YOU.
So, what do they have to say about Sagittarius, anyway?
Strengths: Generous, idealistic, great sense of humor
Weaknesses: Promises more than can deliver, very impatient, will say anything no matter how undiplomatic
Sagittarius likes: Freedom, travel, philosophy, being outdoors
Sagittarius dislikes: Clingy people, being constrained, off-the-wall theories, details
“Curious and energetic, Sagittarius is one of the biggest travelers among all zodiac signs. Their open mind and philosophical view motivates them to wander around the world in search of the meaning of life.”
“Freedom is their greatest treasure, because only then they can freely travel and explore different cultures and philosophies. Because of their honesty, Sagittarius-born are often impatient and tactless when they need to say or do something, so it’s important to learn to express themselves in a tolerant and socially acceptable way.”
Although I can 100% identify with the Sagittarius theme, it makes me wonder, “am I stuck in the clouds? Do I need to be brought back down to earth?
So, I looked back at the blog posts from the past few days, and came to this conclusion:
What does that mean? Well, it means quite a bit. For me, the first things that come to mind would be to get out in nature, turn off the phone, meditate, read, relax, and most of all: sit still! I often think my way into problems, or over-think the world around me. This has not only caused me anxiety, but has held me back from being my true self.
Once you re-center and become one with yourself, feeling comfortable in your own skin, you are limitless- no matter what your sign.
Although I’ll never back down from my adventure-seeking, curious nature, maybe I can stand to embody a little bit of my sea goat, after all. ✨