The New Moon is my favorite time every month, representing the beginning of a new cycle and phase of our lives.
We say goodbye to the last chapter, welcoming the new energy before us.
Now is the time to spread your wings and fly.
Have you been thinking about starting that new project, taking a leap of faith, or working on something creative? With this New Moon energy, you’ll be beautifully supported in your latest endeavor.
Listen to your intuition- what is it telling you?
From one of my favorite sites, Forever Conscious:
August has held the potential to be a turning point month so if you are feeling like your life could use some fresh inspiration or motivation, if you have been feeling a little stuck or stagnant or resistant to change, set an intention or take a small action under this New Moon in order to seal this energy into your life.
The cosmos offer the energy, but we have to be the ones to take it and integrate it into our being. This energy only exists as a potential unless we step forward and make the most of it.
Seeing as this New Moon falls in the sign of Virgo, we are also going to receive the comfort and support from Virgo’s totem, the Virgin Goddess. Although she is a Goddess, her energy applies to all genders.
You can read more about the meaning behind the Virgin Goddess in my Virgo Season article, but essentially, this is a time of independence and for standing in our truth. It is also a time for getting organized and getting our priorities in order, including our health.
What are we giving our time and energy to that is not supporting the vision or life we wish to create?
Creativity is a huge part of my life, but in the past I’ve held back from fully expressing myself, putting my work out there, or believing in my own art.
As I spread my own wings and take a chance, my spirit is lifted and my creations seem to come naturally.
I’m excited to see what this next chapter brings- and I know I’m supported in my journey.
Bracelets: Olivia Burton and MantraBand
Lately I have been thinking a lot about healthy relationships.
This isn’t limited to people who you would date- I’m talking about healthy relationships in every area of life. It includes family, friends, mentors, coworkers, and even people in passing. We spend so much time thinking about our physical health, yet mental health can easily be triggered and negatively impacted when we’re spending time around people who aren’t treating us in a way that is in our best interest.
Of course, we can’t completely avoid certain people or behaviors- but how can we set boundaries and interact with those people in a new, healthy way?
It’s up to us to make the change.
Over the years I’ve had a lot of “friends” who took their own issues out on me. I’ve learned to step away, stopped taking their suggestions, and realized their behavior wasn’t about me at all.
The people I choose to let into my life lift me up, empower me, and accept me for where I am at. They inspire me to keep doing what I’m doing, and would never try and make me doubt myself.
It can be hard to be alone at times, but remember- it’s better to be alone than to be invested in an unhealthy relationship.
Remember all the light you bring, and spend time with those who appreciate you. They’ll help you shine even brighter.
Dating is a funny thing.
Dating is awkward as it is, but it’s even more awkward when you’re sober. I used to drown my discomfort in a glass of wine, telling stories my date couldn’t follow, but since moving to Boston in 2016, I’ve barely dated at all.
Well, compared to when I lived in New York City, that is.
Sure, I’ve met people in various ways- traveling back from NYC on the Megabus, substitute teaching, through recovery circles, and on an app here and there. Each interaction lasted for a very short while, most likely because I detected their bullshit and realized I was something much different than what they created in their mind.
This morning I noticed that The Fix quoted me in their recent article, “Are You Ready To Date Sober?” Ironically, I’ve been thinking about that question a lot lately.
My default answer the past year or so has been “I’m not interested in dating anyone at all.” That’s actually not true, though. I would be interested in dating someone- but only if they were interested in a sober vegetarian cat person.
I’m done with pretending I am someone I am not.
I’m also done with changing for someone, switching my views, or doing things I’m uncomfortable with doing- and I’m certainly not going to pick up a drink just to make you feel more comfortable.
Part of recovery is learning to love and accept yourself for who you are- loving yourself for what your heart says, not the world around you. Despite being someone who prefers to stay in on a Friday night, sautéing up vegetables while drinking a seltzer, I’m confident there’s a lid to every pot…
and mine will be here when I’m ready.