Back in July 2016, as I was packing up my New York apartment and shipping boxes upon boxes back to Michigan, I had no idea what direction my life was going. Vodka in hand, soul empty, and nerves on fire, my heart was broken.
I had officially failed at my life in New York City. It was the only thing I ever wanted; to work in fashion. To live on the Upper West Side. To mingle with famous writers, actors, designers, and socialites. To have a drink at lunch without judgement.
Then, I got it- and I ruined it.
Sure, most of those things are silly; but the career part was what hurt the most. For some reason, however, at the time I didn’t realize I didn’t ruin anything.
I just took a break.
What I didn’t realize back in 2016 was that I didn’t need to purge all of my stuff to become “mindful.” I didn’t need to abandon my love for style just because I needed to step back and work on myself for a while. I didn’t need to drop my #OOTD pictures just to be a happy, confident person on the inside- for my fashion is no longer my mask.
It’s an expression.
What used to be a shield of protection is now a bridge to connect with others.
Style connects. Style speaks. Style inspires.
That said, I have been thinking lately about starting on a few new projects on my off-work hours, and perhaps I’ll even start painting in color- not just gold. 🙂
Life is too short not to do the things you love- and it feels wonderful to be alive again.
One may say my head is often in the clouds and I have a relentless need for freedom, change, and adventure, but most wouldn’t consider me calm or cautious, like a Capricorn. That said, I turned to my “Sag ‘scope” of the day:
“A sense of dissatisfaction that has been dogging you for quite some time now will at last begin to fade. You will instinctively know that you have found your niche in life and can follow your calling to achieve your dreams. You will be able to understand what changes must be implemented to make your health as well as your work much better.”
This brings me to a common theme (or struggle): identity.
Although my haircut is the same as it was four years ago, I’ve spent a lot of these four years questioning who I am.
Have I been who I wanted to be? Or have I been listening too closely to what others have said?
I’ve lived a few different places, dated different people, worked different jobs; but none of things things have made up who I am. Wherever you go, there you are– no matter what is stripped from you, whatever title you have, or whoever is by your side. You always have YOU.
So, what do they have to say about Sagittarius, anyway?
Strengths: Generous, idealistic, great sense of humor
Weaknesses: Promises more than can deliver, very impatient, will say anything no matter how undiplomatic
Sagittarius likes: Freedom, travel, philosophy, being outdoors
Sagittarius dislikes: Clingy people, being constrained, off-the-wall theories, details
“Curious and energetic, Sagittarius is one of the biggest travelers among all zodiac signs. Their open mind and philosophical view motivates them to wander around the world in search of the meaning of life.”
“Freedom is their greatest treasure, because only then they can freely travel and explore different cultures and philosophies. Because of their honesty, Sagittarius-born are often impatient and tactless when they need to say or do something, so it’s important to learn to express themselves in a tolerant and socially acceptable way.”
Although I can 100% identify with the Sagittarius theme, it makes me wonder, “am I stuck in the clouds? Do I need to be brought back down to earth?
So, I looked back at the blog posts from the past few days, and came to this conclusion:
What does that mean? Well, it means quite a bit. For me, the first things that come to mind would be to get out in nature, turn off the phone, meditate, read, relax, and most of all: sit still! I often think my way into problems, or over-think the world around me. This has not only caused me anxiety, but has held me back from being my true self.
Once you re-center and become one with yourself, feeling comfortable in your own skin, you are limitless- no matter what your sign.
Although I’ll never back down from my adventure-seeking, curious nature, maybe I can stand to embody a little bit of my sea goat, after all. ✨