Nothing makes you feel small like being at the top of a mountain. Looking down at thousands of trees, tiny buildings, and snow capped rocks really puts life into perspective.
Today we ventured to Boulder, a city I’d never been to before. I’ve been in Denver for five days now and have been in awe of the constant sunshine, majestic mountains, and overall chill vibe. There’s definitely a much less chill energy on the east coast- unless you count the New England air.
We drove up Flagstaff Mountain to catch the views, stopping several times along the way. Although it was a bitter 24 degrees, the sun made it feel much warmer- unless there was wind, of course. Even though it’s been warmer in Boston, this week was the perfect time for me to go on a getaway, relax, and recharge my batteries. There’s something about the fresh mountain breeze and sunny days that makes you feel brand new.
It’s important to remember that spending time in nature is a perfect way to engage in self-care. Connecting with the earth helps to ground you, relieves anxiety, and balances your root chakra. Having a solid foundation and a clear outlook is important for starting a new week, project, or job- I never used to realize how therapeutic being outside was, but it’s been one of the most helpful forms of “medicine” in my life this past year.
Whether you’re by a park, beach, mountain, river, or lake, spending time in nature is one of the best ways to recharge your soul and re-energize your spirit. I love meditating outside in the sunshine, going for walks along the water, or just grabbing coffee and strolling through the park.
I hope you’ve been able to recharge this weekend- March is almost here, so make the most of this last week of February! I’ll be enjoying the chill Colorado vibes in the meantime.
Ah, 2/22. For as long as I can remember, 22 has been my favorite number. I get excited on the “22” days every month, and never fail to see my birthday, 12:22, on the clock- or any other 22 for that matter. Not only was I born on December 22, I was raised on West Bay Shore Drive, also known as M22 (Michigan highway 22).
22 holds a special place in my heart. Known as the “Master Builder,” 22 is the most powerful of all numbers. Confident and diplomatic, courageous and charismatic, 22 is also known as insightful and intelligent.
Sometimes 22’s can be scared of their own talents and gifts, but listening to love and continuing to spread their art is important for them to truly feel happy and fulfilled. I know that can be the case for me- I’ve held back from sharing my work with others in fear of rejection, but I’ve learned to focus on the positive, learn from the critiques, and know I’m serving a purpose by sharing my stories. It makes me so, so happy when I get messages from women telling me they relate to what I have written. If I can make just one person feel like they’re not alone, I have done what I came to do. We all need to feel connected- and 22 is also a very powerful number of connection.
You can hone in on the ambitious 22 energy and learn more here.
Angel number 222 signifies balance and harmony, encouraging you to follow your heart. It’s also a nudge from the angels that you’re on the right track to discovering your purpose and following your passions. If you’re feeling down or doubting your dreams, know that 222 is reminding you to keep the faith- the Universe will deliver when it is time.
Maintaining a positive attitude and acknowledging everything you’re grateful for is essential to manifesting more blessings and synchronicities in your life- for me, when my vibration is high and I’m feeling energized, my life begins to flow and following my path is effortless. 22, or 222, is powerful for manifesting your desires and dreams, so make the most out of this special day. If you’re in need of raising your vibration, check out a post I did about ways to uplift yourself when your vibes are a little low.
Writing out a gratitude list each morning, choosing a few favorite mantras to lift your spirits, and journaling are amazing ways to help put your life in perspective, set intentions, and manifest a life you’ll love. You hold more power than you know, so focus on what you want- not the things you don’t. It works.
PS- hello from Denver! Anyone who asks if I’m here to ski definitely doesn’t know I’m one of the least athletic people on Earth. However, there’s a heated pool, hot tub, and endless coffee (which is a little more my speed). Let me know if there’s anywhere I MUST check out while I’m here!
Wouldn’t it be great if we could all sleep like a cat?
If you’re like me, you’re prone to insomnia. With an overactive mind and creative brain, sometimes going to sleep (and staying asleep!) seems impossible.
You toss, you turn, and you feel extremely aggravated. That was me last night.
Although I’m excluding prescription pharmaceuticals from this (which I don’t take), I’ve tried everything, from Melatonin, Advil PM, guided meditations, solo meditation, tea, and music. Last night, even though I was extremely sleepy, I attempted a guided meditation- and it only made me irritated. The guide had me count from 100, telling me to think “I’m so rested” in between each number. I started to count, but he kept interrupting me! How am I supposed to count when you keep giving me more prompts? Just let me count!
Now, I’m not knocking guided meditations for sleep (because it can work for me at times), but I found a much better way to set my mind at ease and calm my body down:
If you haven’t heard of it, ASMR stands for autonomous sensory meridian response. Do you know that fuzzy feeling in your brain when someone talks softly, writes on a whiteboard, or makes tapping noises? That’s what ASMR is! I vividly remember an 8th grade teacher who used to set me into a trance when she would talk to the class. I also have always loved watching people draw. Watching Bob Ross paint and listening to him talk is another great example of ASMR (isn’t he the best?).
There’s a variety of ASMR videos available, from soft speaking to scratching. I’m a big fan of tapping, scratching, and soft noises opposed to voices, which only distract me.
My favorite ASMR YouTubers are ASMRSurge, Caroline ASMR, and ASMR Massage Psychetruth. The only thing that could calm me down last night was watching ASMRSurge’s “Zen Garden” video (shown above). My eyes began to get heavy, so I ended up closing them and simply listened to the sounds. Watching the sand movement, listening to the sounds, and watching the placement of crystals was simply divine!
It may take a little trial and error to find your “trigger,” but there’s definitely an ASMR YouTuber or sound for everyone. Whether you like listening to someone’s voice or enjoy the crinkling of a plastic bag (I love those), ASMR is certain to give your brain tingles, calm you down, and help you rest.
So, get your ASMR on and have a zen-full night sleep. 🙂 Let me know how it goes!
A few months ago I wrote about ways to raise your vibration, which is the frequency of your energy. The higher your vibration, the better your mind, body, and spirit will feel. A high vibration will result in a happier life, more peace, clarity, joy, and love.
When your vibration is high, it’s much easier to manifest the life you want and take control of your destiny.
But what if you’re lowering your vibration without even knowing it? The lower your vibration is, the less connected you are to your higher self. This results in negativity, selfishness, poor health, anxiety, and many other unfavorable factors. As I look back at my own past experiences, I realize how many things I once thought were fun and harmless were actually lowering my energy, hurting my health, and making me miserable. A low vibration is also damaging to your immune system, causing anxiety, depression, pain, illness, and disease.
Instead of relieving our stress, addictions actually lower our vibration and block our connection to our higher selves. For a moment, these addictions give us a synthetic sense of being in the present moment, when in reality, they’re pushing us further away from consciousness. Pharmaceuticals, alcohol, shopping, sex, and gambling are all examples of common addictions that give us fake or temporary highs.
For example, alcohol is called a “spirit” for a reason- it numbs our psychic senses and often turns us to the dark side. Rooted from the Arabic “al-kuhl,” meaning “body eating spirit,” alcohol can do much more bad than good. I started and stopped time and time again over a six year period, only to realize life is much better with a clear mind (not to mention body and spirit!). Sure, it can be extremely uncomfortable to experience all of your emotions, but with a strong spiritual foundation, these feelings are much easier to handle.
Electronics and Media
We can’t deny that we’re all reliant on our phones. Now, add laptops, iPads, Kindles, and television to the mix- how often are we completely tech-free? Although these devices have become a part of our everyday lives, they can be extremely damaging to our sleep cycles, mental health, eyes, and muscles. The energy of prolonged electronic use can not be healthy to our bodies, yet the affects of the content we’re consuming is an entirely different story.
The media is flooded with tragedy, fear mongering, negativity, and materialism- yet it’s prominent in our society. When did our culture, as a whole, forget the beauty of walking in nature, reading a physical book, or working on a craft? For me, it’s important to have a healthy balance. I suggest going a day or two without the media to see how you feel.
Junk Food and Processed Foods
It can be a challenge to avoid quick meals during our busy lives. While living in New York I often forgot to eat, so I’d pick up a piece of pizza, hot dog, or pretzel at a street stand. Oh, and who doesn’t love street meat?! Delicious, sure- but definitely not supportive to my health or energy level. I’m still very guilty of this, but I’ve been trying to plan better, buy healthy snacks, and eat meals consisting of mostly veggies.
Have you noticed how much better you feel when your diet is rich with fruits and vegetables? Eating raw or vegan is a wonderful way to increase your health and your vibration, but it’s not for everyone. As much as you can avoid junk and processed foods, the better off you will be.
When we look at physical things to satisfy us, we’re disconnecting from the spiritual world. Sure, this works for many people- but when is enough enough? A wise man once said, “mo money, mo problems,” and he was right. Cutting back on “things” has made me so much happier, less stressed, and more content with what I do have. Today, I look to spirituality, not spending, when I am feeling lost.
I have written a lot about my experience with completely changing my life back in 2016 when I left New York City. From fashion blogger to frugal, I had no idea that it would be the start of one of my greatest passions- minimalism. Although I had more clothes than I could account for, a big paycheck, and a fancy zip code, I was constantly depressed. I thought a boyfriend, a job, a new handbag, or a drink would fix things- but they never did.
In a world of hustle and bustle, taxes and retirement plans, societal norms and laws, it can be difficult to embody a spiritual life. I’ve spent much of the past few years questioning the “expectations” of our culture, usually standing critically on the sidelines and running off to do my own thing. Living as simply as possible has been crucial to my happiness, but our world always has a way of reminding me to stay grounded and focused on the light. Instead of falling into depression or anxiety about the chaos around me, I chose to live in my own little world.
Who are we to say that the world can’t be a magical place?
Remember the excitement and wonder we had as children? The curiosity we had for what was around every corner, for what each day had in store, for the enchantment of the unknown? I’ve lived a lot of my adult life this way; discovering new places, making new friends, finding myself in once-in-a-lifetime situations. I had a great sense of wonder as I moved from city to city, neighborhood to neighborhood. I still feel that way as I explore places I’ve never been, snap photos of buildings I’ve never seen, and meet people from all over the world.
However, the “real world” sets in. People criticize us, remind us of our failures, pick at our faults, and tell us our dreams aren’t possible. That’s dense 3D energy that you don’t need. No one ever achieved greatness by being held back by their critics. As we enter the New Moon in Capricorn, I’m trying to leave behind my limited beliefs- the beliefs that tell me things aren’t possible, that I can’t, or the voice telling me “that won’t happen.”
Anything can happen.
Most of the magical moments are those we never expect. I never would have been able to make up many of the tales I have yet to tell had I not had that wide-eyed wonder and joy. Moving to New York City was a huge part of this for me; it seemed like a fantasy land where reality didn’t exist. In a city of bright lights and dreams, I had the belief anything was possible- but just because I’m no longer doesn’t mean the magic has ended. In fact, it’s more powerful than ever- because I’m conscious of it.
The best is yet to come.
During this New Moon, I am letting go of what I once was and making room for the magic that is on its way. Although I recently deemed harmony as my word of the year, my theme for 2018 is limitless. Limitless opportunities and infinite possibility. The only person who has held me back from success, happiness, or stability is myself; if I continue to follow my heart, listen to my soul, and continue working hard, the magic will present itself.